Serenity Prayer

  "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
  the courage to change the things I can,
  and the wisdom to know the difference."  Richard Niehbur

      I continue to realize the power of these words on my mind as I deal with the "system" trying to figure out financial issues, my own health issues, relationship stresses, frustrations with people and institutions. When I don't just "react" I can do this mental gymnatics exercise:
      In my mind, there is a mini-flow chart...1) Here's the issue. 2) Can you change this situation? 3) If so, what are the possible ways it could be changed? 4) Talk to God about the possibilities and then wait for any clarity that might come. 5) Choose a course of action. 6) Ask God for courage to do what I must do.
      The other side of the flow chart...1) Here's the issue. 2) Can you change this situation? 3) The answer is "no." 4) Talk to God about the peace I need to accept this reality. 5) Let go. 6) Repeat as necessary!
       Do I always have such clarity? No, but more than I used to ... perhaps someday.